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Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Christmas 2008

It was a fun Christmas, and although we missed all our siblings and their families we are grateful for such goodly parents. This video is for my Brothers and Sisters that were away from us this year. Enjoy!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Home Sweet Home

Okay, there is nothing better than coming home at Christmas time and smelling my home! You walk in the door and you are hit with a christmas pine, sweet cooking smells and it just makes you feel like "there's no place like home". Even better is coming home to falling snow...this doesn't come around all that often for those of us in Eugene, but when it does...ohhhh it's fun!

Christmas came a little early....

Many of you know that one of my favorite things right now is being a part of my little neighbor Alexander's life. I feel so blessed to have Alexander and Zac next door, and we have had some really fun times this past year. This year I was leaving early to go home to Oregon for Christmas but I didn't want to miss out on Christmas with Alexander so Zac and I decided to have our own little celebration.
We started the evening with Zac grilling his amazing hamburgers, then I had them listen to a book called Silent Night, a true story about soliders during World War I. Finally Alexander was able to open his gifts and he was so excited. We started off with my family tradition of Christmas pj's. Alexander opened up his pj's that came from Zac's parents who are in Montana. Zac received his traditional boxers and red shirt (traditional as we just started this last year), and I in my Christmas pj pants. The rest of the evening was a lot of fun, especially my gifts from Zac. You will note that I received a Life Jacket, you are probably wondering why? Well, Zac likes to tease me about my desire to "be prepared", apparently my 72 hour kit didn't come with one of these. Who knew? :) He also answered my christmas wish with a hand potatoe smasher (yes, I wanted one of these), and my all time favorite gift was a Homemade coupon book where I can redeem these coupons anytime. The best part of the evening was just seeing Alexander get excited about Christmas, and spending time with two people that I have continued to enjoy getting to know better and better.
Merry Christmas


Monday, December 15, 2008

The good and the bad...

I really didn't want to share this information until after Christmas, but it seems like it gets out faster than expected and I don't want anyone to feel left out.
So....here is the good and bad
On Friday I was laid off from my job (This is the bad)
On Friday after I was laid off from my job I once again find that Heavenly Father is ever mindful of me (us) in our trials of life. (This is the good)

So here is the whole story...enjoy...
For about a month rumors were going around and around. About two weeks ago the rumors were getting worse and worse. Then it got really bad on Tuesday, I received an email from my HR VP asking that all HR Reps be in in their office on Friday for mandatory calls that we needed to be part of. On Wednesday majority of my Managers started telling me that their meetings were moved to Thursday, so I emailed my HR VP stating that the "buzz" around the office was that these meetings were taking place on Thursday and should we be present. She writes back with a really short and weird response, something to the fact that I was not to be part of the calls. It seemed really strange, and then on Thursday the same Managers that where talking up a storm became very silent. I came home with a very sick feeling in my stomach, and I just felt like I wasn't going to make it through the night. I decided to take it to the Lord, and I told him "okay, I think we are going to have a mass lay off and I think I am going to be part of it, so if this is what is happening I need to be prepared as I have done this before and I need to have peace". It was at that moment that I received the very peace that I was asking for and then I said, "Okay, I need you to help my parents with this information because they need to be prepared for this, so PLEASE help them know this is coming and that they will be able to handle this information".
Friday morning I got a box and put it in my office and started packing it up. I kept it in the closet so no one would know what was going on. The lay offs started and I awaited my turn, and when the moment came I was prepared and felt at complete peace. I guess the truth is I look back and realize that two years ago I had nothing and within those two years the Lord blessed me with abundance, more than I could have ever imaged. So the truth is, the Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Not that he will, but I really think He has been preparing me for this for a while now, and I kept thinking it was just my insecurities but really it was him letting me know that things were coming. I look back and I am amazed at how many blessing are in place for me right now. It's a crazy time to be out of work, but I guess I just feel like it needs to be this way.
GOSH...I hope I still feel this way in three months when all the money is gone. :( :)
I have done this before...a couple of times. So, I guess for the most part I feel like I can do this...again.
As for my parents they are amazing! The Lord answered my prayers and they had a feeling it was coming.
So...for those of you in Arizona...if you hear of any Human Resource jobs available please let me know, as I am looking. :)



Sunday, December 14, 2008

Teens...oh yes...back in the teens...

Okay, so some of you might understand this where some of you were blessed with skinny genes..but for those of us out there that know the challenges of weight I will have to share with you my highlight of the week.

I went into Old Navy the other day to see if I could find any cute PJ's for my little neighbor, Alexander. I decided to look at pants since lately my first pair of "Long and Lean" Gap jeans were getting a little bit bigger (big smile on my face). Old Navy is having a HUGE sale, so I walked over to check out and see if I could find some pants. To my surprise they had a big selection of pants but none of them were my size, but I did find size 18 and decided that maybe I should buy a pair just to have as my new goal pants. You can image my shock when I got into the dressing room and found that those size 18...YES, you heard me...eighTEEN pants fit me. Now, don't get me wrong I wasn't about to wear them the next day as they just felt a little snug, but nonetheless they fit!

I ended up buying 3 pairs, not because they were size 18, but because they were only $9...you can't beat that! I got in my car and immediately called my parents to share the news, and yes...their were tears. My Dad asked, "when was the last time you remember being that size?" my response with crying was "I don't know, I can't remember".

I guess my next goal will be to stay in those size 18 during the Christmas holiday, let's face it...Christmas is always a time of eating.

By the way...I did wear my first pair two days after I bought them... :)

Monday, December 8, 2008

Visitors...I love visitors

One of my best friends from BYU-Hawaii, Robert and his amazing wife Jamie came to visit me with their three cute kids over the weekend. I love having a home where people will come visit me. :)
They arrived on Thursday and stayed until Sunday. On Friday night we went over to our other best friend from BYU-Hawaii, Marilyn and played with her and her cute family as well. It was the best and the memories that came flooding back, oh I love memories!
Rob and Jamie had a work party on Saturday and Sunday in Sedona so I was happy to play babysitter with the kids, I think they made it easy on me as they were so well behaved.
It was a great weekend!
:)
JJ

Friday, December 5, 2008

The Thanksgiving Week




The Thanksgiving Week started on Tuesday with the Family gathering at Richard's and Julie's for Jill late Birthday celebration. Ashlee and Jeff drove all day with those two cute little boys and we couldn't wait to play with them. Thanksgiving was amazing thanks to The Adams and my wonderful sisters who picked up where I left off due to getting the 24 hour flu on Wednesday. I was almost better on Thanksgiving, but at least I was able to sit at the table and enjoy the company. The week ended with us celebrating Amber and Ashlee's B-day.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

One of my best friends, Cammie put this on her blog and I loved this paragraph so much that I had to put it on mine. Especially with Thanksgiving just a day away!

"Stresses in our lives come regardless of our circumstances. We must deal with them the best we can. But we should not let them get in the way of what is most important—and what is most important almost always involves the people around us. Often we assume that they must know how much we love them. But we should never assume; we should let them know. Wrote William Shakespeare, “They do not love that do not show their love.”3 We will never regret the kind words spoken or the affection shown. Rather, our regrets will come if such things are omitted from our relationships with those who mean the most to us."

-President Monson

With that being said, I am grateful and blessed to have such family and friends as you in my life. You make me a better person, and through your example I strive to be even better.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 24, 2008

Day 4 - Four-Wheeling with nature

Most likely you are tired of watching my trip to Santo Tomas Mexico, so you will be happy to know that this is officially my last blog on this trip. I personally think this is the funniest video yet, but I should warn you I say a "bad" word during one of the clips...oops!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Day 4 - The Pueblo



The day started by Richard (my brother) waking my sister Jill and I up 5 minutes before we were to be at church, yes that is why we don't look all that great for church. We drive into town only to find out that it is Stake Conference, and this small Branch will not be meeting at the ward building in town. We drive back to the beach house but I wanted to go back and get photos of the Pueblo. We start off at the only market in town and the market soon became a "central location for all those people in the pueblo". I guess word gets around, the guys in the truck asked us if they could have a ride in our car (we were driving the hummer, which we call the "short bus" due to it's color. We make our way through the rest of the town, see all the interesting sites. We end up stopping to take a photo of a very cute garden and become fast friends with the owners. They end up giving us 2 Mango trees, how cute is that. It turns out Nacho (the boy in the photo with Jill) lived in Kentucky for awhile.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Santo Tomas - Day 3

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Today started with peanut-butter pancakes with jelly syrup, apparently my brother saw this on Rachael Ray. They were pretty good, I think you have to be in the right mood.
We then headed off to the Estuary to ride the current into the ocean. It was pretty cool and fun. Jill and I were assigned the four-wheelers and we had some fun. I think we were a little more conservative on the ride over but on the ride back we were dare-devils, okay...maybe more confident would be the right word.
Next event was watching the Utah vs. BYU football game on the most amazing couch ever made. Which made up for the sad loss that BYU had, too many fumbles for the cougars.
The day ended with watching the amazing sunset (see photos) and treats up on the roof.
Another great day in Santo Tomas!

Friday, November 21, 2008

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Santo Tomas, Mexico

A mini vacation which was greatly needed. Sister-in-law, Julie offered her families beach house for a small vacation to Santo Tomas Mexico, just south of Rocky Point. This is quite the place so I decided I would have to give day my day video's just to show you how great this vacation is turning out to be.

Monday, November 17, 2008

A note from Jill...ones who knows

Jill, my dear sister, I hope you don't mind but I loved your message on my blog and I wanted to share what you wrote.

"Rest assured, friends and family, there are many more letters and articles similar to this one. This past week has brought blessings along with the difficulties.-many letters and phone calls of support (from all over the world, from those who are not LDS) to the temple thanking the church members for their work and expressing sadness at the treatment of church members by many people-Richard Simmons told my friends that he was sad to see Mormons being treated so poorly (they go to his aerobics class, no joke)-a group of professional African-American men standing in front of the LA Temple with signs that read "I voted yes on Prop 8"-missionaries are being stopped and asked about the temple and the church-the media is FINALLY paying a bit more attention to our difficulties, since the "white powder" incident-members seem to attend the temple with greater earnestness and desire; it easy to recognize the blessing of religious worship right nowAnd many more untold stories are small events that continue to strengthen the CA LDS and all others that support the passing of the prop."
November 16, 2008 11:17 PM

Friday, November 14, 2008

THANK YOU!!!!!

Former Catholic Bishop of Salt Lake City Decries Religious Bigotry in Political Ad; Defends LDS Role in California Ballot Initiative Protecting Traditional Marriage
Last update: 9:26 p.m. EST Nov. 7, 2008

SACRAMENTO, Calif., Nov 07, 2008 (BUSINESS WIRE) -- The following statement was released today by Bishop William Weigand, head of the Roman Catholic Diocese of Sacramento and former Bishop of Salt Lake City, in response to attacks on the Mormon Church for supporting California's Proposition 8, defending the traditional definition of marriage:
"Catholics stand in solidarity with our Mormon brothers and sisters in support of traditional marriage--the union of one man and one woman--that has been the major building block of Western Civilization for millennia.
"The ProtectMarriage coalition, which led the successful campaign to pass Proposition 8, was an historic alliance of people from every faith and ethnicity. LDS were included--but so were Catholics and Jews, Evangelicals and Orthodox, African-Americans and Latinos, Asians and Anglos.
"Bigoted
attacks on Mormons for the part they played in our coalition are shameful and ignore the reality that Mormon voters were only a small part of the groundswell that supported Proposition 8.
"As the former bishop of the Diocese of Salt Lake City, I can attest to the fact that followers of the Mormon faith are a good and generous people with a long history of commitment to family and giving to community causes.
"I personally decry the bigotry recently exhibited towards the members of the Church of the Latter Day Saints--coming from the opponents of Proposition 8, who ironically, have called those of us supporting traditional marriage intolerant.
"I call upon the supporters of same-sex marriage to live by their own words--and to refrain from discrimination against religion and to exercise tolerance for those who differ from them. I call upon them to accept the will of the people of California in the passage of Proposition 8."

SOURCE: Roman Catholic Diocese of Sacramento

Saturday, November 8, 2008

A day Trip Up North

A day trip up north to see Jerome, but we took in the sights along the way. Our first stop was Arcosanti, it was very interesting. It's a city that is being built slowly, and I mean slowly. It reminds me of something I would see in Eugene Oregon. I have to read more about it to tell you anything interesting. The best description is what I wrote above "it was very interesting". Second stop, a "Pit House" (old ruin) off of Orme Road. It was pretty cool and I was impressed with Zac's knowledge, he was like our very own tour guide from "Arizona Highways" (magazine here in the desert:)
Next was Jerome, AZ and if you are wondering where the pictures are I am sorry to say that I was enjoying myself with the history and shops that I forgot to take photos until the end of the day. So although you don't see much of Jerome, we did enjoy ourselves. I loved our drive home as it was this very scenic route and the weather was beautiful!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Birthday Girl Jill


HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JILL...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOOOOUUUUU!


I know what your Birthday wish is, and it is a righteous desire. May it come true! I love you little sister and the example you have always been to me.

Monday, November 3, 2008

It's voting day...

It's hard to believe that we are finally going to be able to vote. Yes, yes...I know many of you out there already voted. Trust me next year I will be requesting my early ballot.
However, I want to give a few words to what we are about to experience. I've had a hard time trying to decide what to do about voting for a President. I don't love either candidate, but after talking to a friend that I trust greatly I have decided on McCain...mostly because this friend did say we have a few Supreme Court Judges spots that are opening up and I almost find that just as important as the Presidential Election. More importantly I will be voting for something that means more to me than anything else, Prop 102 "Definition of Marriage between a Man and a Women".
I want my sister Jill to know how proud I am of her and all the work she has done in California on Prop 8. I am proud of my other siblings as well who have put time and effort into the proposition here in Arizona. I am sad when I hear others say that I am one of many people in the support of this proposition that is being discriminate. For those I say, "you are wrong, I am only fighting for my own rights not to be taken away from me". I have had and will continue to have many friends that are living a gay/lesbian life style. I love you, especially my friend Kim, I consider you one of my sisters. However, I can not stand by and watch so much of what I believe in be taken away because I am to passive to do anything about it. To often I think those of us that believe in God have sat back and been easy going and passive, and yet now we finally say we are going to stand and be heard and we are called names for this?
I believe the Bible to be the word of God and I also believe in the Book of Mormon, another testament of Jesus Christ. In both of these books it teaches and testifies of truthfulness, if I know something to be true than do I not have the right to stand for these truths? I will do all I can to protect something that is most precious of all, Family.
Last Sunday we had Stake Conference here in Arizona. We had excellent speakers speak to us about the times we live in. Elder Packer spoke and many of you probably received an email from "someone" who did not have the right to copy down what he spoke of in a meeting in Utah. I had several questions as to how authentic this email was. However, after listening to Elder Packer speak I realized he said many of the same things that went around in this email. It's hard not to be worried and fearful of what is ahead for us. He also gave us the peace of knowing that the only one we can rely on is our Heavenly Father. We are to have faith and live our life according to his teachings, we will be blessed by this. He did not say that these times would pass us by if we did it, he just said that we will find peace and comfort by living our lives in accordance with gospel teachings. It makes me realize that we have been a selfish people, and we have been lacking in so many areas.
Tomorrow I am voting, and I think this is the first time that I am voting with true passion for something I believe in and know to be true, Marriage is between a Man and a Woman.

We might not win this but at least I know that I did my part! That is truth!

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Halloween 2008

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Friday, October 31, 2008

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

I ran away...got the flu...but it was worth it.

Okay, so last week was pretty busy with work and I had to go visit my Henderson, NV location. I left at 5:00 am on Thursday morning and while driving I realized that I forgot just how pretty this drive can be, especially with the new road and most of it being two lanes now. As I was driving I kept thinking about how I would love to just keep driving and run away from the headache of life. After a good visit and training with my location. Then a fun dinner with my friend Kim Jenkins and a short visit with her family, I decided that I had no need to stay another day. I decided I was going to run away to Provo, Utah. It was 5 hours away and I could visit my sister Ashlee, her husband Jeff, and their two cute boys Ben and Tyler. I made some arrangements with my brother-in-law Jeff to make sure that I would be surprising Ashlee.
Once again I left at 5 am in the morning on Friday and made it into Provo a little before noon. I decided to call Ashlee and talk to her on the phone while I made it to her home. I stood at the front door and as she answered the look on her face was perfect (see picture). It was so fun and little Ben was just as excitted to see me as Ashlee was, he might be only two but that little one knows family when he see's it. We had a lovely lunch and then took a drive up the canyon so I could see the last of the red, yellow, and orange fall leaves. It was so great and enjoyable to just be away and not think to much about life back home and FINALLY see FALL.

Saturday started off with pancakes for breakfast, running errands, having lunch, and then going to a farm and picking out pumpkins from the pumpkin patch, seeing Farmer "Joe"-I think it was the tracker that I found sexy. celebrating dinner for Jeff's offer letter to a Law firm in Roseburg, Oregon. It was a perfect day of just downloading and enjoying life with Ashlee and her family. I was lucky that one of my Best friends, Cammie and her husband Erich and cute kids were coming to Provo for a visit and was able to have a nice catch up dinner with them. I wish I had more time or I would have been calling family and friends but I knew it would be to short of a visit to catch everyone (Sorry, to those that I missed).

I had to leave on Sunday morning as I had to catch a plane on Monday for a business trip to Denver for HR training, and knew that I still needed to do laundry.
So, when I woke up in the middle of the night with the flu I knew I was in for a long hard day on the road. Side note, Jeff, Ben, and Tyler had all had this 24 hour flu thing before I got there but I didn't think it would effect me that quickly.

Okay so for those that don't like "Throw up" stories you might want to stop reading.

I woke up at 5:30 and threw up, I was feeling better and threw my stuff in the car and drove as fast and far as I could before I was going to have another "throw up" moment. I pulled the car rested until I threw up and then again I felt better so I drove as far and fast as I could before it would happen again. Lucky for me Ashlee had given me a big pot and I used it. At one point I don't really remember much other than pulling over throwing up again and then falling asleep. I woke up and did another section of the trip. I HONESTLY have no idea how I did it, I don't like being sick but I really don't like doing anything when I have the flu and I am throwing up, so to think I actually drove 10 hours is pretty amazing. I prayed before I left that the Lord would bless me and send Angels to help me make it, and once again he came through for me. Even with the stopping and sleeping I was home in 10 hours, in fact I think I would have been home in record time except for an accident in the hwy. as you enter Phx. That was a bummer as I sat in a stand still for an hour, but I will say that I was over the "throw up" of my flu by the time I entered Flagstaff, AZ.

I went to bed at 7:58 pm and felt better by morning. It turned out that Ashlee also got sick that night and she had the same thing only she was lucky enough to be home in bed. She and I are both amazed that I made it home, but I don't think I ever want to have the flu and drive again in my life time. You will be happy to know that I made my trip to Denver for my HR training, and I am once again on my way back home.
I ran away...got the flu...but honestly it was worth it because I loved feeling Fall again and spending time with those that I love.

Tagged 4th picture in your 4th folder


Okay, so I was behind on reading family and friends blogs. I just caught up with Cousin Cyndi and saw that she tagged me. So here is my 4th picture in my 4th picture folder. My very cute nieces Hannah, Taylor, and Madalyn. This was from a photo shoot I had for my nieces and nephews. They all ate some kind of fruit and then I put the pictures into colored frames that matched and put them on my kitchen wall.
Thanks Cousin Cyndi...sorry it took me so long. :)

I tag....
Tammy Adams
Sister Ashlee
Sister FerFer
Sister Tricia (if she ever checks her computer)
And all other friends that want to participate....this is an easy and fun one.

Monday, October 20, 2008

8 Things about me...

Well my cute friend Jamie tagged me so here I go...
1. Post rules...I don't think there are rules
2. Answer the six "8" items
3. Let each person know they have been tagged

8 Favorite TV Shows - I rarely watch that much TV, I am a huge fan of watching shows online!
1. The Office
2. Pushing Daisies
3. Private Practice
4. Samatha Who
5. LOST
6. Chuck
7. 20/20
8. Today Show (I just listen to it as I get ready for work)

8 Things I did yesterday
1. I woke up and ate pancakes with raspberries and whip topping with my roommate Tina
2. I went to my sister, Amber's ward, she gave a talk in Sacrament Meeting. (You did a great job)
3. After church I went to Amber and Aaron's house and ate a mini Snickers bar - perfect treat after church.
4. I tickled my little neighbor Alexander and played hide-n-seek with him
5. I ate some "Fall Harvest Soup"...it's soooo yummy. (See Ashlee's recipes blog)
6. I went to the park and played golf with Zac and Alexander (my neighbors, and yes I am learning)
7. I played on the park playground with Alexander
8. I emailed some friends.

8 Things I look forward too
1. Playing with my neighbors, Alexander makes me smile all the time.
2. Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas
3. The weekend when I get to cheat on my diet.
4. Babysitting for Emma or Isabella
5. spending time with friends and family
6. Reading others blogs so I feel like I am keeping up with friends and family
7. Talking, playing, visiting my nieces and nephews
8. Planning a fun day and then doing it.

8 Favorite Restaurants
1. Pita Jungle
2. Cheesecake Factory
3. Munch-a-Mania
4. Pinkberry or JuJu Berry
5. Cafe Rio
6. Barro's Pizza
7. Indian place up by Richard and Julie's
8. Home, mom's home cooking

8 Things on my wish list
1. Husband
2. Children
3. Living in a place that has 4 seasons
4. Living closer to Family
5. lose 40 more pounds...I'v already lost 40 :)
6. One day travel with those I love
7. Be happy where I am in my life
8. New things for my home, TV, Stove top, counter tops...

8 People to tag
1. Tina
2. Kerstin Lorenzen (I know you don't have a blog, but you can always email me :)
3. Ashlee
4. Cammie O.
5. Jamie Donigan
6. Kelli W.
7. Alexander Lorenzen ( will assist him with this)
8. FerFer

Okay well have fun!!!!

Friday, October 17, 2008

A very CUTE family



Okay, I just got this picture from my cute Brother Matt. This is his very CUTE family.
Father: Matt
Mother: Beth
Oldest: Madalyn
2nd: Carter
3rd: Hayden
4th: Bailey
5th: Paige
I don't get to see these guys very often because they live in lovely Oregon but I love seeing photos like this.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Let's talk hair...


Let's talk hair...my good friend Kelly W. made me think about this as she blogged about doing her daugther's hair. I thought, "hey wait a minute I have a lot to say on this topic".

I can honestly say that I hated my hair growing up. I was called "Bush Woman" in elementary school and no matter how hard I tried to "feather" my hair it NEVER worked. It was just one big ball of "frizzy hair". I hated combing my hair as it was very thick curly hair. No one ever made brushes or combs for curly hair people, especially if it looked like mine. The only people I knew that came close to the same kind of hair as me was my friend, Maria, who is Africian American.

I still remember all the times my Grandmother (Father's mother, curly hair came from his side of the family) would say to me, "As soon as you go up and comb your hair we will go to the store". It was like she just thought that I purposely frizzed out my hair on purpose. I thought I was doomed for life with ugly hair. My poor Mother always tried to help, but I was young and thought my way was best. After argument over argument we finally came to an agreement that I would wear my hair the way I wanted to on Monday through Saturday, but on Sunday she could have her way. Looking back through the many photos, I wish I would have let my Mother do my hair more than just Sunday.

Let's jump into the future, freshmen year at BYU and all the sudden my hair became managable. It has something to do with the dry weather, it controls my hair...and all the sudden people started commenting on my hair as if it was "cool". I became a little more confident and started to like my hair instead of hate it.

Let's jump a little bit farther into the future where my hair will and can be the main purpose of conversation. I have gone into interviews where my hair was talked more about than the actual job. I have had people comment on my hair all over the place. People that I don't even know come up and ask if they can touch it. Most recently a co-worker asked me how long it took me to get my hair to do that, I always find this to be a strange question, as I can't image anyone doing my "do" on purpose. I think that is the little girl in me that still thinks her hair is the "butt of jokes".

Why is it that we have to experience such trials in life before we see the blessings. I just wish that someone would have told me all those mornings that I fought and cried over my hair that one day some people will covet my hair. Ah...who am I kidding, even if someone would have said that to me I never would have believed them. Looking back I realize that I allowed myself to have such low self esteem because I never looked like others, I dreamed that I would be beautiful if I had different hair.

Now? Well now, I wish I had a dollar for everytime I heard a person say to me, "Wow, is that natural curl? People pay a lot of money to have their hair look like that". I wish I could say, "yes, but would they be willing to go through childhood looking like a bush woman?"

The other day a friend of mine was telling me why he liked me, while he was going down his list he mentioned my "big hair". I wish I could remember the other things he said, but the funny part was that my mind was stuck on the "big hair" comment. When I was little if someone mentioned my "big hair" I think that would have sent me off crying. This time when I heard it, I just smirked, because let's face it if only I had known then what I know now.
A lesson learned: Love thy hair no matter what age you are.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Fall...Pumpkin Patch...all in Arizona

I'm jealous, I hate being left out of family fun. This weekend some siblings were gathering at my parents house and going out to our favorite Farms in the Eugene area that have the best Pumpkin Patch. These Farms don't just have a Pumpkin Patch they have the Fall colors in bloom, the Tractor hay ride, the hot cider, oh the memories. It just about kills me thinking of all the fun the family had today all together. I love Fall, it's my favorite season and it's just like to me to end up living in a place that doesn't know what Fall is suppose to be like.
So instead of dwelling on what I don't have I decided it was time to get in the "Fall Season" Arizona way. Alexander and I headed to our nearest Arizona Farm with a Pumpkin patch while his Daddy was fishing with a friend. We ended up going to "Mother's Nature Farms" in Gilbert. The best part of the day for me was being with Alexander and the weather. We had a cold (75 degree) day with WIND and I pulled out my short sleeve sweater. I know, those of you not living in Arizona have no idea how exciting this is for me...but trust me. This doesn't happen very often in Oct.
We had a great day as Alexander and I woke up at the usual 7 am had breakfast, did the clean dishes, did the dirty dishes, swept and mopped the kitchen floor, Alexander hopped between watching the movie Toy Story and assisting me in my small garden by weeding. Well, let's just say he threw rocks while I weeded. He did end up in time out, but what do you expect from a 3 year old little boy. We got ready for the day and head to the Pumpkin Patch. It just happened that the Phoenix Zoo was visiting with their reptiles for the day. Not my favorite thing to touch or be close to, but once Alexander warmed up he was ready to be close and personal. I can't say I felt the same, but I was holding the camera so at least I had an excuse. :) I hope you can see that we did what we could to experience Fall and find us a Pumpkin.

Friday, October 10, 2008

First Cake by Alexander

I made a cake for Brother in law, Aaron and Alexander decided he needed to make a cake...and so we did. He did it all, and then Daddy, Zac made it for the final stage. I don't think I have ever seen a cake look so colorful...is that the right word? Well...it tasted pretty good. I don't think I am ready for my own cooking show...but Alexander and I did a pretty good job. :)

Thursday, October 9, 2008

That's my Sister...Yes on Prop 102 in Arizona

Not only am I proud of my little sister, Jill, in this video (yes, she's the blonde) but here in Arizona we have prop 102. I am voting "Yes on Prop 102" because I believe that marriage needs to be defined between a man and a women.


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Sunday, October 5, 2008

Conference Weekend...

General Conference weekend and I was pretty excited about it for a few reasons...
A. It's always a great "pick me up to life" and "keep going, you can do it"
B. You never know what big announcement will be given, 5 new Temples, and ROME??? Wow!
C. It gives peace to a ever changing world and life. Let's be honest, we are having some crazy times with all that has taken place with our economy, politics, and all the stuff on the news.
D. It's one weekend where I don't feel bad about watching TV for 8 hours. Especially this year as I have caught this nasty chest cold.
Saturday Session did not disappoint, and I think I cried my way through most of the talks.

I was lucky enough to have my little Alexander this Saturday while Daddy had to finish up some stuff at work. When the first session started the the Mormon Tabernacle Choir started singing Alexander turned to me and said, "JJ that's your church". Which is so funny as he has only gone to church with me once and I am not sure what part of the choir and my ward building made a three year old put that connection together. Then for the next hour or so Alexander and I snuggled up on the couch and he hardly moved. He was such a good little boy and so very cute. At one point I was crying and Alexander looked at me with this confused face and without missing a beat he said, "JJ, it's okay I'm not moving to Montana yet. In a little bit". (Alexander and his Daddy are planning on moving to Montana in a "little while" to be closer to his parents.) I had to laugh and give him lots of kisses for that one.

During the second session, he decided to watch 101 Dalmations instead of Conference, but when the little primary children were singing I called him upstairs so he could see all these little kids sing in this choir. As he listened to a few lines of the song he started humming the tune to the song, and then proceeded to sing his own words to the tune of the song. Of course his words went something like this, "my dad is Iron man, he is strong...". Again I just looked at him and giggled, tickled, and give him lots of kisses.

Saturday Conference session was amazing and I am looking forward to watching Sunday Session in an hour with Sharron, The Adams, Laura, Amber and Aaron. How grateful we are to have a Prophet and Apostles on the earth today. How blessed we are to know that our Heavenly Father loves us and gave his only begotten Son, Jesus Christ to redeem us from our sins that we may return to him again, our loving Father in Heaven. How grateful I am that the gospel teaches us to love one another and bear up one anothers burdens. As I know I could not do this alone, without the amazing family and friends that I have in my life.

I am blessed as are you!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Procrastinator

When it comes to going to bed sometimes I can be such the prcrastinator...I don't know why...especially when I have the goal of getting up and going to the gym at 5:30 am. Don't worry I will still do it, I will guilt myself into and then be tired the rest of the day.
Can someone please tell me where the month of September went? Honestly, this month has gone by so quickly.
Work has been crazy busy so I guess I can blame it on that.
Last week I went to visit my ABQ group and within four days I went from El Paso to ABQ to Amarillo and then back to ABQ. Let's just say it's a good thing I enjoy my District Manager for my ABQ region, Hank and David, National Acct. Rep. Those two kept me entertained and we did get a lot done, maybe to much as we did lots of Corrective Counselings, Performance reviews, and one big investigation. So I guess all those mornings getting up at 5 am and not going to sleep until after 11pm paid off. Let's just say I earned my salary, what am I talking about...I always earn my salary. In fact, I think I give my company a discount... :)
I called my sister Ashlee today on my way home from work. As we were talking she had a 2 year old and a 7 month baby in the back ground. Let's just say the sound level in the background made me say, "Ok, well maybe I should call you later". Ashlee said, "no, no...they are just talking" Apparently little TyTy found his voice and is learning to use it. As we continued to talk the background noise grew and finally Ashlee said, "Do you want two kids?" I thought to myself, "yeah...I would take two crying babies over the day I had". Ok, Ok...for all those Mothers our there...I know after a few days of this it would get old. However, the truth is I would trade places with you in a second. Either you deal with babies that are your own or you deal with babies at work. Let's face it the babies at work are not as cute and they should know better! :)
Okay...I am done procrastinating.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

A little catch up...

It's been a while since I have just written something so I decided to do it now. However, I don't have much to say other than a bunch of small things. My greatest achievement recently has been losing weight. I bought my first pair of GAP - Long and Lean jeans. Yahoo! Baby steps...I would post a picture but the truth is I still don't love how I look in photos, so that will have to wait.

I am still loving my home, and I still wake up in the morning and can't believe that I bought it, or that I actually have it filled. I remember when I bought it I thought it will take me two years before I will have anything in it. Now, I look around and think "where am I going to put that?". The Lord blessed me and I am grateful.

I don't know if I have ever mentioned that I have a roommate, her name is Tina. I don't know if she will kill me for doing this but I am going to tell you a little about why I like her so much. One, she likes to try different food and when we talk about restaurants or places to eat she gets like a sparkle in her eye just talking about it. Now, you would never know that she lives to eat because she is so skinny but she does and I appreciate that about anyone. Tina is beautiful. She has this amazing hair that is cut perfectly for her, you add her darling smile and sensational personality and you have the perfect girl. I have been meaning to clean my refrigerator for a while now, but I keep letting things get in my way. Today I came home and there was Tina cleaning it. I was so appreciative and felt bad at the same time because I didn't do it sooner. Then she cleaned the kitchen floor and again I thought how blessed I was to have such a helpful roommate. When I decided to get a roommate I knew I had to choose the right person. When her name was mentioned to me I felt like a light was just turned on. She is so easy going and just seems to go with the flow. I am grateful that I have her as my roommate.
Tina, if you are reading this...I hope that 1) you are not mad that I am writing this :) 2) that you know how much I appreciate you 3) you have been a prayer that was answered. 4) Thank you, I am glad I call you friend.

Some will want an update on my cute little neighbor next door. Alexander is doing well, he is going through "3 year old" changes and I am learning that his mind is really thinking on it's own. My favorite line he said to me the other day was, "JJ, you're pretty". I don't care if it did come from a three year old it's been a while since a boy has said that to me. :) He's still one of my favorite things and I love him.

I also want to send a note out to all my friends with kids. I love your children almost as much as you do. I love babysitting when you ask and I love visiting you and becoming instant friends with your children. They make me smile and laugh and it reminds me that we can still be happy by simple things. A couple of weeks ago one of my best friends, Cammie, called to tell me that she is pregnant with her third. She informed me that if they were having a girl they were going to name her middle name "Jane" after me. A few days ago she called to give me the happy news that little,___?__ Jane Seals will be the new addition to their family. How cute is that! Thanks Cammie and Erick.



Sunday, August 24, 2008

The big day finally came and Isabella Karen was blessed in church by brother, Richard. It was a beautiful blessing for a beautiful baby girl. Family and friends gathered after for a wonderful luncheon. Julie the dress was beautiful and Mom the baby blanket was just as amazing as all the others.
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Saturday, August 23, 2008

Dad's Surgery Weekend

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My Father recently had surgery and had some complications. He had some internal bleeding with caused him to have a mild stroke. He lost his eyesight in his left eye, but within a couple of days half of it came back. As soon I found out that he did in fact have a mild Stroke I along with many of my siblings flew home to be with each other and help where we could. As you can see when the family comes home it’s a full house. I’m not sure Dad was able to get a lot of sleep and rest with so many of us in the house, but I think it did lift his spirits by having so many of us around. He is still working on full recovery and on his good days he would come out and sit with us in the Living room for just a little bit. I am grateful that I went home and was able to be with Dad and help where I could. Currently Dad is still having good days and bad days but we hope that he will continue to have better days than bad. I appreciate all the prayers and thoughts that so many of you have shared with my family. Thank you!

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

A great Sunday with Toomer Cousins

I don't know how to explain it but there is just "something" about having an Uncle and Aunt in the same State as me that get's me all happy inside. Maybe it was all the good times that Aunt Ann, Uncle Heber, and cousin Cyndi gave me while I had my summer with them. Maybe it's the great memories and meals that Aunt Dixie and Uncle Robert gave me while I went to school in Utah. Either way I am happy to say that those of us in Arizona now have Uncle Bob and Aunt Bobbie in Prescott and I couldn't be more happy.
On Sunday Richard, Julie, little Isabella, Amber, Aaron, and myself went up to Flagstaff for Cousin Tracy and husband Trevor baby blessing of new family member Addie. Right after we gathered for a great luncheon provided by Uncle Bob and Aunt Bobbie. It was so fun to have time with Cousin Julie (who came up from Washington), Cousin Sam and Jenn with their two kids (who came from Las Vegas), and Trevor's family. We had a great time and it was wonderful to have some time with the cousins. I will have to post the pictures as soon as I can download them, then you can see how cute Addie is.
I know the rest of the family was lucky enough to attend the Wedding in Idaho of Cousin Tyler, Congratulations to the new Bride and Groom.

Monday, July 28, 2008

Purpose and Reason...

Recently I moved my records to a Family ward, it was time for a change. Let's be honest after being in a singles ward for 19 years I think I have earned myself a break. Various things have come to pass that makes me realize the great differences in a singles ward vs. a family ward, and I am not talking about the obvious differences either. However, I will put those stories on hold for a later post.
As soon as I met the Bishop the first question he asked was, "do you like kids"? My response, "yes, I like kids I have 12 nieces and nephews, I'm a very proud Aunt". So my realization of a calling in Primary was pretty clear. However, to my great surprise when the 1st Counselor extended the calling for the "Unemployment Specialist" and expressed to me that the Bishop felt great inspiration for me to be in this calling I realized one of two things...
1. I will be losing my job once again and the Lord is preparing me.
or
2. The Lord had purpose and reason behind those many difficult years of struggling through finding the right job, interviewing, re-doing the resume, and searching the Internet for just the right position.
I would like to thing option 2 is the reason, as I don't want to lose my job. :) Either way I was nervous but I accepted the calling last night and I am actually looking forward to seeing what I can do to help and assist other where I feel like I am a pro. Okay...maybe not a pro...but I definitely have experience.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

What happens in Vegas...Stays in Vegas

Whoever came up with the saying, "What happens in Vegas, Stays in Vegas" is brilliant. What a perfect slogan for Vegas. Not that it applies to everyone that goes to Vegas, but it's still a brilliant slogan.
Last week I was given Nevada as part of my territory for work. It's are first store in the area and it was fun to go meet my new team and train them. I had two good days of training and then I connected with an old childhood friend, Kim.
Kim and Kevin (her husband) live in Las Vegas with their three cute kids. Kevin has a practice there and Kim graduated with her nursing degree about two years ago. It was so fun catching up with Kim and just playing around. They recently put a pool in the backyard and we spent some of our time soaking in the pool while the sun kissed us with it's rays. Due to it being Vegas you can always find someone that works down on the Stripe. Sure enough Kevin and Kim have a friend in their ward that is a "Pit Boss" and gave us free buffet tickets to "Hard Rock". It was so yummy! We ate and ate and ate. It was the best buffet I have ever been to and the freshly made crepes on the dessert table was to die for.
The best part was catching up with Kim and feeling her amazing spirit that shines through her. Thanks Kim for giving the best weekend that was well needed!

Saturday, July 12, 2008

4th of July Weekend

For the 4th of July my roommate, Tina and I went to Santa Monica to cool down for the heat of Az. We had a great time and my favorite part was renting bikes for 24 hours and "Pinkberry". I hope these pictures come through, thanks Tina.
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Friday, June 27, 2008

Something that made me realize a truth.

Okay, now I am going to tell you this experience I recently had but it's not like this kind of stuff happens everyday....PLEASE...

So on Tuesday I am driving to work in traffic (Broadway curve) inching along, when I start feeling like someone is watching me. I look over to notice this nice looking guy trying to get my attention. It was so obvious what he was doing. I just started laughing, do guys really think girls want to be "picked up" while driving? To me it's like when a guy tries to "pick up" on you while you are sweating away at the gym, it just doesn't make sense to me.

Lucky for me his lane moves a little faster, and that is when I notice he is driving a very nice black Porsche and it has Oregon plates. My first thought was, "oh I am so embarrassed, it's probably someone I know from Oregon". So when my lane moves faster and we are next to each other again I look over and give a "warm" smile to redeem my rudeness, only to realize I do not know this person. I immediately drive faster and inch as close as I can to the car in front of me. I, of course, start laughing at myself again. After a few more passes my lane finally moves me along and I on my way never to see Mr. Good Looking Black Porsche guy ever again.

Now I am human...it gave me a real boost for the day. He was nice looking and I think if he would of come up to me in a restaurant he would have probably been given a date. Well, most likely if his personality was as good as his looks. Which made me think about the last time something like this happened. I believe it was in '94 or '95 I was on the Highway and this guy came up next to me as we were probably going 75 miles an hour to stay with me. If I moved over he would, if I slowed down he did too. Finally I looked over and he was telling me to pull over, at first I thought "oh no, something is wrong with the car". I rolled down the window only to have him tell me that he thought I was beautiful and wanted to take me out. Can you image all of this happening on the Highway...yeah...real safe. I was scared to death he followed me for about 10 minutes and finally he gave up. Now by no means did he come close to looking like the guy in the Porsche but it got me thinking about the similarities and differences of both situations.

Interesting enough a few hours later while I was at work I took part in a meeting where a "very good looking" Supervisor was being investigated for sexual harassment. The issue came up that the other employee involved found it acceptable, and didn't consider it to be sexual harassment. After the meeting the Manager and I were discussing the issue. The realization that we came to was that because he was good looking then it was acceptable. Women are accepting of comments, flattery, sexual comments from good looking men more readily because we find it to be a "boost" of self confidence? I don't know but I realized that if Mr. Good looking Black Porsche guy wasn't so good looking I think I would have been freaked out instead of it giving me a "boost".

That is a truth!

Friday, June 13, 2008

Alexander's 3rd Birthday Party - Newell style

If there is one thing my Mother has taught me it's that everyone needs to celebrate their Birthday. If there is one thing my cousin Cyndi taught me it's that you can never have enough BIRTHDAY PARTIES!
Alexander turned 3 on June 4th and I knew I wouldn't be able to sleep at night if I didn't get to celebrate his Birthday with him. Daddy, Zac, was kind enough to humor me and my family by allowing us to have a "traditional" Newell Birthday party. The theme was "CARS" and Grandma JJ (Alexander calls my Mom this) made the cake and it was just about as cute as it could be. We had the traditional "money in the cake", the favorite "candy game", and sang the repertoire of birthday songs. I'm not sure what Alexander thought or his Father for that fact, however, if their is one thing we Newell's believe in it's that we will make up any excuse to have a party.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEXANDER! We love you.

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Wednesday, June 4, 2008

A bonus...a REAL BONUS

I received a bonus...yes...a bonus. You probably don't know what a big deal this is to me. Why? Well, a person in HR usually doesn't get a bonus since we don't bring any money to the table. However, after an Acquisition for a new store in my area I was surprised to receive a "Thank you" letter and a bonus check inside. It wasn't the money that made me happy, it was the card. When you think about it the card is the part where a person expresses "feeling" "gratitude" "acknowledgement" and for me that will always mean more, but the money is a nice touch.
A bonus...I got a real bonus!

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Introducing my new niece, Isabella Karen

I was so happy to come and be part of Isabella Karen coming into this world. Here are some of her first photos, I think you will agree that she is quite beautiful.
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Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Our "little" Paige is sick


Today our cute little Paige, my Brother's 5th child and 9th grandchild, was taken to the hospital due to her being extremely sick with the yucky flu that seems to be going around. After she was checked by the Dr's they found out that she has a rare disease called Roto virus. The poor thing will be in the hospital for a little bit, but is doing better. I am not sure if the parents are doing as well.
Hang in there guys! Our love and prayers are with you!



Tuesday, May 27, 2008

"HONEYMAN SOUTH GANG"


"Honeyman South Gang"
bottom row: Sam, AJ, Jenn, Tate
Middle row: JJ, Cyndi, Craig, William, Susan
Back row: Jill, Carly, Sam, Amber, Aaron

Monday, May 26, 2008

"HONEYMAN SOUTH"

Anyone that really knows my family knows that every Memorial Day and Labor Day they will find the Newell family along with our eternal friends (Lakes, Bevans, Rodericks, Johnstons, Slaugthers, and then the families off of those families) and our beloved cousins from the Toomer side of the family (Mom's side) camping at our favorite Oregon coast campground, Honeyman. It is a tradition that began so long ago that we don't remember not ever doing it.
No matter if it is rain or shine that is where you will find the Newell clan. We have done our due time in a tent, pop-up tent, mini trailer, and currently using the deluxe "2nd home" trailer. You wonder what would keep our attention at such a camp ground? Well, you could catch us hiking Dinosaur Mountain (Sand dunes, and it's not for the faint of heart), eating, visiting Devils Elbow (our favorite beach), playing games, did I mention eating, telling stories of the past and future, taking bike rides, catching up with old friends, and visiting the local town of Florence with a bite to eat at Mo's (famous calm chowder). As Jill put it so nicely in her blog, "TRADITION is splattered all over this getaway".

So what does one do when they can not go or attend such a popular event? Well Cousin Craig decides he has had enough. We will make our own for those of us in the South. Yes, "HONEYMAN SOUTH" was created and developed by Cousin Craig and wife Susan in San Clemente, CA. He invited cousins (Amber and Aaron,me, Sam and Jen with their two kids Tate and AJ, Jill, and Sister Cyndi). We had so much fun!

Okay honestly my fun was put on hold for just a little while. I woke up Friday morning for a quick trip to the Dr's office apparently infections can really be bad stuff and then my body had some kind of weird flu like effect due to the medicine. So to be truthful I was ill and slept all day Saturday and half day Sunday until the effects eased up and I could join in on the fun. However, that did not stop laughter, games, walks on the beach, food, and smores in the Brown's own private fire place in the backyard from taking place. Craig started our own "HONEYMAN SOUTH" special with introducing us to a new dessert called "Woof-ums" (Jill said it best, "I think it comes from the saying to, wolf something down") Even if I did miss out on the beach time on Saturday I still was able to hang out and enjoy the time I had with everyone!


(Much of this is plagiarized from Jill's blog -- thanks Jill)

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Build a Bear with the Birthday Boy Alexander

I don't know how many of you have "Build a Bear" but it really is quite a cute store. My cute little neighbor is turning 3 and I wanted to do something special with him. I decided to take him to "Build a Bear" just to see how he would react since I wasn't sure if this was the right age for him. He loved the store but I still wasn't sure if this was going to be the right birthday gift. To my great surprise he mentioned the Store again and I thought, "okay this is the place". We got to the store and he picked out his bear right away. A boy after my own heart, anyone that really knows me knows that I don't like to shop.
He was a little confused on why we would just pick up a bear that had no stuffing in it. In fact it "freaked" the poor kid out. He refused to watch the lady use the machine to stuff the bear full. He wanted nothing to do with the different sounds you could put in your bear if you choose. And when it came to picking out the "heart" he wouldn't turn his head. At this point I thought to myself that I had made a big mistake by bringing a 3 year old. However, to my great surprise after the bear was stuffed and sewn up Alexander was ready to do the rest. He loved the bath and combed the bear while talking to it. Picking out the clothes was pretty exciting as he couldn't decide on what he wanted more. However, when he saw the "fishing" outfit he threw everything else down and that was it.
Next came naming your bear and getting a birth certificate. I kept asking Alexander what his Bear's name was and it sounded like he said "todder", after asking him to repeat it several times I finally decided he meant "Todd". The bear was then named "Todd the Bear". It wasn't until later that I put him in his car seat that he said the Bear's name more clearly "Father". Yes, this cute kid named his bear "Father Bear". Now part of me would like to think that I had something to do with this as I have been teaching him the song "Once Upon a Time...Three Bears" (most of you will remember this song from girls camp). However, the truth is and will always be that he loves his daddy and I think he named his bear after the Father who takes him fishing whenever he can.
So, I would like to introduce you to the Birthday Boy Alexander and his new best friend "Father Bear".


Bath time...

Yes, even Bear's need to be washed down there....

Alexander dressed his new bear

Birthday Boy Alexander, Father Bear, and JJ